Choosing Your Priorities: We Can Have It All

December 10, 2023 by GigiValdez Leave a comment

Can we really have it all?

We, and by we, I mean WOMEN – often navigate the complex world of ‘having it all’—a career, family, personal passions—only to realize that having everything doesn’t necessarily mean doing everything all at once. It’s about choosing what matters most at any given moment.

We try to do so much in one given space of time, and I have tried that myself. And it was a recipe for disaster for my mind. It was harder for me to sleep because I was in a constant state of thinking of work, family, travel, etc…

It hurt my brain.

Learning to let go of things you want to do or putting them on the back burner for a moment has tremendously helped the harmony of my life at home. Which I think is the most important PRIORITY for me at this point.

In this whirlwind of choices that we have, women find empowerment in defining their priorities. Some may soar in their careers while nurturing a family, while others may prioritize personal growth before expanding their families or excelling in their professions. These decisions aren’t about sacrifice; they’re about crafting a life aligned with individual aspirations and values.

Society often implies that balancing EVERYTHING is the ultimate goal. But the truth lies in the freedom to prioritize what brings fulfillment – what brings you joy?

It’s the freedom to pursue a career, relish family time, delve into hobbies, or foster personal growth without conforming to external pressures.

By embracing YOUR CHOICE, women create our unique narratives, defying conventional expectations. It’s a testament to resilience, courage, and the recognition that ‘having it all’ depends on your personal story, not a one-size-fits-all model.

Ultimately, it’s not about ‘having it all,’ but about having what matters most to you in the moments that count. It’s the liberty to curate a life that resonates authentically, embracing the journey of evolving priorities without the weight of what society wants you to be.

CHOOSE YOUR JOY.

Thanksgiving Post

November 23, 2023 by GigiValdez Leave a comment

This Thanksgiving, I’m grateful for the tangled mess of life that led me here—woven with laughter, tears, and unexpected turns. Grateful for the scars that narrate stories of resilience and growth, and for the silent moments that speak volumes. Grateful for the shared meals that nourish not only the body but also the soul. Above all, grateful for the patchwork of souls—friends, family, and strangers—who sprinkle kindness and light into life’s tapestry. Thank you, for being part of my journey.

The Perks of Dressing Well for Yourself and Your Partner

November 19, 2023 by GigiValdez Leave a comment

Tony and I have been making an extra effort to dress well for each other when going out on dates and events. We started this dressing well journey together after 2021. Not really buying expensive pieces, but pieces that are classic and timeless.

We live in the Tricities, Washington where the norm are flannel, yoga pants, hoodies and sweatpants. And there is nothing wrong with that – to each its own.

And after going abroad several times, there is something culturally appealing to watch people who dress and carry themselves well. We decided to adopt that to our sense of style and evolution of self.

Let’s talk about the underrated art of dressing well, not just for your partner, but for yourself too.

First, there’s something oddly empowering about wearing clothes that make you feel like you could take on the world. I mean, slip into a sharp suit or a killer dress, and suddenly, you’re not just ready for that presentation or fancy dinner; you’re ready to negotiate world peace. It’s like a costume change for your confidence.

Now, for the partner perks – they may say they love you in your comfy sweatpants (and they probably do), but let’s not underestimate the power of jaw-dropping attire. Dressing up for your significant other is like wrapping yourself in a gift and saying, “Surprise! You’re dating a fashion icon.” Plus, it’s a sneaky way to keep the romance alive. Who knew a well-fitted outfit could be relationship therapy?

Let’s not forget the entertainment value. Ever tried to get into a pair of skinny jeans that you swear fit last week? The struggle is real, my friend. But hey, it’s a workout in itself. Dressing well is an adventure – sometimes a comedy, sometimes a drama, but always an experience.

And finally, there’s the undeniable truth that when you look good, you feel good. It’s like a magic trick for your mood. Suddenly, you’re smiling more, strutting your stuff, and turning heads like it’s your side job.

So, whether it’s for the confidence boost, the relationship spice, or just the sheer entertainment value, there’s no denying that dressing well has its perks. Plus, who wouldn’t want to be the stylish protagonist of their own life story? I always say you must romanticize your life anyway.

But for right now, on a Sunday afternoon… There is heaven in taking long naps and hanging out in your good ole sweatpants.